Thoughts 101: How Thoughts Create Emotions and Stuff

Emotions aren’t inherently right or wrong. They are your body’s response to what you are thinking—whether you’re thinking consciously or unconsciously. That’s right: thoughts create emotions. Your belief systems and unconscious patterns are often running on autopilot, leading to emotions that feel random or hard to explain.

Experience Your Dreams NOW: How to Manifest Emotional Fulfillment Without Waiting

Everything we want is because we believe it will make us feel the way we desire: good, or at least better. Everything. And this is why desire has a bad reputation. Some even believe that desire is the root of suffering.

Shed Your Shell and Embrace Change (Lessons from a Soft Shell Crab)

I was sitting on the dock in the back of my house watching the light reflect on the water and listening to the egrets calling in the mangroves. I was on the tail end of a period of several months in which I had been undergoing intense internal healing. I say healing now, but at the time, from the outside I may have seemed like a recluse, and internally I feared that I had finally gone crazy.

Are You a Quitter or a Hope-er? How to Overcome Setbacks and Stay Committed

On the path to any meaningful goal, one thing is guaranteed: setbacks. They come in many forms—unexpected delays, discouragement, or simple lack of motivation. The key to success lies not in avoiding them, but in overcoming setbacks with resilience and purpose. This is where your true growth happens.

How I Overcame Self-Doubt and Shyness to Become Fiercely Passionate and Confident

A few weeks ago, I was asked a question that really blew my mind! The question was “why do I get out of bed every day?” When I heard my own internal answer, I was blown away by what I heard myself thinking. My short answer was:

“Because I can’t help it. I have an unwavering knowing that life is meant to be more.”

Fill Your OWN Cup! Are you a BEGGAR or a GIVER?

Imagine that each person has a cup. How they feel—their emotional state, health, wellbeing, fulfillment, their energy level—is dependent on how full their cup is. Every person as the ability to pour from their own cup into someone else’ by giving of themselves in one way or another. There are some people who are cup-fillers, helpers, givers who go around filling others’ cups. There are also people who are like beggars on the street holding out empty cups asking or demanding them to be filled.

Fill Your OWN Cup! Are you a BEGGAR or a GIVER?

Imagine that each person has a cup. How they feel—their emotional state, health, wellbeing, fulfillment, their energy level—is dependent on how full their cup is. Every person as the ability to pour from their own cup into someone else’ by giving of themselves in one way or another. There are some people who are cup-fillers, helpers, givers who go around filling others’ cups. There are also people who are like beggars on the street holding out empty cups asking or demanding them to be filled.

Put the Oxygen Mask On Yourself First

You know when you’re in an airplane and the steward does the demonstration and tells you “in the case of an emergency and a drop in cabin pressure, put your own oxygen mast on first before assisting other passengers.” It’s cliché but most people miss the point. Have you ever stopped to consider WHY?  Because if you don’t put the oxygen mask on yourself first, and you lose consciousness, you are unable to help anyone else.

Do You Know What You Really Want? No? Find out!

So, what do you want? If you’re like most people, this is surprisingly difficult to answer. Most people are so inundated with messages from their parents, peers, and society of what they “should” want that their true desires are drowned out.